February update

Hi strangers.

Kindergarten homework, plus the dropping of mandatory rest time, threw my favorite big kid for a loop in January. We're back into a groove for now and his hard work paid off.  He's moved up to a higher reading group.  We are so proud of him, not because of the higher group {although that's impressive and exciting} but because he really had to put forth some effort to get there.  Reese is morphing into a big kid right before our eyes.  

We've also had a round of yucky colds, plus an ill-timed meeting with our old friend rotavirus.  Jack handled being sick like his usual happy self, but missing work and coordinating who's taking care of who is always a beast for Lofton and I.  I'll update more on Jack in an eight month post, but he's scooting like a professional.  I turn my back to hang up clothes only to find he's made it across the room and is trying to stick his fingers in a light socket. I'm certain he's the reason I feel every bit of my 32 years.  

As I work, painters are at the house painting the ceilings and family room.  This will put a wrap on our impromptu kitchen remodel which spiraled into a family room revamp,including the taking down of a wall.  As disruptive and messy as construction projects can be the improved functionality in our kitchen and overall refresh of the look has been really nice.  I was not sad to see the green walls and navy laminate counters go.  I owe the blog some pictures and when I find my camera battery and some sunlight, I'll deliver.  

Life is full, but life is also really great.  I'm trying to embrace the season we're in and give myself a little grace.  I've been saying no to extra commitments and focusing on just being at home with my people.  It feels nice :)

JLB {six months}

Didn't I just post about month five?

Half a year flew by in a blink.  Our sweet boy continues to get sweeter, if that's possible.  I often tell people I'm not sure how we lucked up and scored such an angel baby.  He rarely cries, is content to just go with the flow, and aside from a few sleep regression issues is an absolute dream

This month the rolling over really took off.  I can no longer just leave him on a blanket and expect him to stay.  This has made things like laying him on the bed or couch obsolete.  We've also had to start strapping him onto the changing table and into his swing.  The kid wants to move. He will lay on the floor and flail is arms and legs just hoping it will propel him forward.  In due time, my love.

Jack can also sit up sort of.  He still needs some support otherwise he topples sideways or forward, but sitting unassisted isn't too far off.  We would use the bumpo to help him but his thighs are too big and he gets stuck {true story}.

Our main excitement this month came from the introduction of some food.  Currently Jack eats a pouch of baby food each night around 5:30.  His favorites are pears, apples and brown rice or apples, butternut squash and prunes.  We've tried a few others also.  He started with half a pouch and quickly escalated to a full pouch.  I'm sure, just like with Reese, we won't be on baby food for long.  He's decreased his afternoon bottles by a few ounces { on his own}, but otherwise his formula intake and schedule have stayed about the same.

Jack has become more aware of his surroundings this month which is both a good and bad development.  He's discovered the dogs and studies them intently whenever they are near.  He'll also play with a toy or book for a few minutes, which is fun.  He babbles and coos, laughs and grunts.  He will also yell in protest when he's unhappy or we aren't paying enough attention to him.  Whereas before he was content for anyone to hold him, he's definitely started developing a preference for certain people.  Stranger anxiety is beginning,  I believe, although he generally warms up quickly.

Jackaroo also realizes now when I leave the room.  He scrunchies his face up and furrows his brow then angrily protests until I return.  It makes cooking dinner difficult.  I've continued to embrace this second child on my hip lifestyle :) I'm certain part of his nighttime waking is also due to this development.  Frequently when we go into his room during the night he stops his fussing and gives us a big grin, as if to say "Hi, I was just lonely in here without you."  It's both maddening and adorable.    

Stats:
Weight: nineteen pounds, fourteen ounces
Wearing: size 3 diapers, 9-12 month onesies, and 12 month longalls or bubbles

merry christmas 2014

Life with two kiddos is busy and the holidays certainly add to that. This year, I {and Lofton} made the decision to say no a lot. No to extra errands, parties, commitments. We, and our kids, are healthier and happier when we stuck to our routine as much as possible.

With Jack's surgery scheduled for the 30th (more on that later), we made the choice to celebrate Christmas in Pensacola with my parents the weekend before Christmas. We then travelled to Lagrange for a night to celebrate with Lofton's mom, grandparents, and brother's family. That left us home on Christmas Eve night and Christmas Day.

We went to church on Christmas Eve where Jack competed with the preacher for attention, we made a gingerbread house, left out a Christmas tree cake for Santa {the struggle to make cookies was real this year} and then snuggled into bed.  Santa came early for our little lambs.  Reese got a new bike {which he did not ask for}, some books and Legos.  Lofton and I gave him some new shoes and a field goal for the yard.  Can I tell you how much he loves that field goal?  Best $14 I spent all year.  Jack also got a riding toy-- a rocking giraffe.  He's too little for it now but I'm sure he'll be sitting on it soon.  He also got a few books, some spoons and a slew of new pacifiers.  

Christmas Day was quiet with just the four of us but also nice.  I cooked while Jack napped and the boys played in the yard, then we played a zillion rounds of Uno.  

Our favorite part of Christmas this year was reading our Advent book each night.  It's hard with a six year old to maintain a balance of Santa fun and Jesus but we certainly try.

These two fill my heart to the brim.  And that bottom picture is perfection to me.  Reese being his silly self and Jack along for the ride.  

JLB {five months}

This picture cracks me up.

Jack is literally the most pleasant baby I've ever encountered.. except the moment I took this picture. Such is life, though.

Month five included much of the same for our sweet babe.  Eating and sleeping like babies do :)

This month brought more mobility which did interrupt his sleep briefly, but we are back on track now.  He likes to scoot all over his crib and would then get frustrated when he couldn't get back to his sleeping spot.  We finally just stopped playing his game {seriously I would go in and he'd be laying on his back back smiling in the middle of the night} and he seems to have worked out his issues.

He can now roll not just from his front to his back, but also from back to front.  The first few times he rolled it was in an attempt to get closer to Reese, his favorite person, but now he does it regularly.

Reese makes this kid laugh like no other.  Jack is the happiest when Reese is right next to him.  This works out well as our oldest is a born entertainer.  Jack doesn't find me nearly as amusing, but continues to be his most content when perched on my hip.

Our daily schedule has stayed pretty much the same.  He wakes up around six and goes to bed around seven.  His naps aren't super predictable but he's generally so happy that it doesn't matter.  And if being a non-predictable napper is a trade off for good nighttime sleep, I'm fine with that.

We tried introducing rice cereal and that was a bust.  I don't have strong feelings about him eating it so we just moved on.

Knock on wood, we haven't been to the doctor {at least for this child} since his four month shots so I don't have an updated weight.  He's wearing primarily nine month clothes, with a few twelve month longalls to accommodate his stride length.  Still in size three diapers :)

thankful

It's hard to believe that this time last year I was violently ill and wishing away the days until June.  Five months in to parenting two I can say that our days and hearts are much fuller, the bags under my eyes are vast, and I usually need an extra kick of caffeine at some point during my waking hours.  But these watching these kiddos love on each other is worth every single minute.  

My heart is full of gratitude for the people I get to do everyday life alongside.

Happy Thanksgiving, friends.  

Rosemary Beach

This summer I had a great idea to take a family beach trip for Fall Break.  Reese loves the beach and was admittedly disappointed that we didn't get to go this summer.  October at the beach is my absolute favorite so I booked a place in Rosemary Beach without a second thought.

 And I'm so glad I did.

It was the perfect trip and at just the right time.  The weather was amazing-- hot enough for Reese to swim but not so hot that Jack couldn't be on the beach.  We rented an umbrella both days and doll baby napped like a champ.  We stayed in a one bedroom carriage house that was maybe a 1/4 mile from the beach.  It was a great set-up for us as we don't need a lot of room.  The living room had a pull out couch but Reese preferred sleeping in the king size bed with us.  Of course.

We made one quick grocery trip for necessities and then didn't need the car again.  We were able to walk everywhere-- the beach, dinner, the pool-- pushing Jack in the bob stroller.  It really was such a relaxing and enjoyable vacation.  Lofton and I were a little unsure of what to expect with an almost four month old, but he did great.  Reese is always a champ about rolling with Jack's schedule, but he really got ample time playing in the sand and had no complaints when it was time to head back to the house for lunch or a nap.

Lofton and I are already thinking of a time we can go back.

JLB {four months}

A little late... 

Just like that another month zoomed by.  The gap between our children has made me to forget how rapidly the milestones and days fly past.

Jack is becoming sweeter and more laid back.  Is that possible?  He's developing his laugh and loves to use it.  He primarily laughs at Reese and Lofton, but I'm trying to up my game.  His voice doesn't seem to surprise him anymore and he squeals when he wants us to pay attention to him.  It's his "hey second child over here being neglected" squeal.

Our daily routine has stayed pretty consistent.  Both of my children do best on a schedule.  Wonder who they get that from?   I feed him at 6:00am, then he eats at school between 9:30-10:30 and again around 2:00.  We have a bottle around 5:00pm {although he doesn't always finish it} and then our bedtime bottle around 7:15.  He sleeps through the night most nights. We are going to introduce some rice cereal soon.  I'm hoping the introduction of solid food helps with the reflux.  It's still raging.

We had our first cold this month and it threw a wrench in our sleep.  Jack was so congested at night we were having to hold him upright to sleep.  It's taken a a week or so to get him back to his all night snooze routine but we are almost there.  We don't let him cry at night, but have let him fussed it out some.  He usually soothes himself back to sleep without needing us.

Jack discovered his hands this month.  More specifically, sucking on his fingers.  He has a tepid relationship with the pacifier.  If someone holds it in his mouth for him he likes it,  but the kid isn't holding it in on his own.  That's where the fingers have come into play. We can hear him on the monitor at night sucking on them.  He also does it in the car.  Unfortunately he gags himself more often than not.

His head control has improved and if we would practice tummy time more he'd probably be rolling all over.  The benefit for me of him being able to hold his head up is I can change the position I carry him in.  I love a hip baby and I swear the child would be perfectly content to perch there all day.  I'm enjoying these days of semi-imobility.  Jack tracks Reese's every move around the room and as soon as he can roll/crawl/move to follow him, I know he will.

A few notable events this month:  Jack was christened on October 5th by our friend, and pastor, Scott Bowen.   It was Scott's last service before leaving to lead a church in Tennessee.  Jack was under the weather but it was a special day nonetheless.  Additionally, we took a family trip to Rosemary Beach for Fall break.  It was amazing.

Stats:

Weight-- 17 pounds, six ounces {on Nov. 5}
Length-- 26 and 1/2 inches long

Wearing-- primarily 9 month clothes, he can still wear a few six month things depending on the stride // 6-12 month onesies//size 3 diapers